Associated with pension transfer sex work, webcamming doesn’t contain the best reputation. It’s often considered exploitation or even a last-resort hustle to debt, but Reed Amber, 26, explains how webcam models are simply your average self-employed freelancers with the exact same level of agency and independence as anyone else.
Model, producer and co-creator of YouTube channel ComeCurious, Reed it’s essentially the physical embodiment of sex positivity, which she defines as “trying to make people think that what they’re doing as well as what they’re into isn’t wrong, it’s normal and it’s absolutely fine.” She’s a huge advocate for removing stigma and taboos around sex, so we caught up along with her to learn more about webcamming, a distinct sex work which is seldom mentioned.
How come you imagine some men, and in all probability women too, prefer it to porn?
“There’s a lot free porn i feel webcamming is much more of an personal one-on-one. It is possible to go surfing in order to find any ol’ stuff, but webcamming is a bit more personal; it’s tailored exactly as to the you desire and what you’re searching for. You’re not sharing it with 100 thousand other people. This is your show. Quite often you increase your relationship, I talk with you as a friend and I respect you as being a person. ‘How has your entire day been, what did you get from the shops, what are you cooking for dinner…’ it’s such as an online relationship”
…So it’s similar to the ‘girlfriend experience’?
“Yes, it’s just like the girlfriend experience. But that also depends upon what the webcam model is a lot like and also what the person paying is a lot like because everybody wants something more important.”
Perhaps you have had avoid a request?
“I’m one with the cam girls who rarely say no. I’ve always wanted to try interesting things, but that’s not because I felt like I needed to. It’s just personally a few things i might like to do. I want to tick stuff off my list, I must you must do everything once specially when you are looking for sex positivity. Even when it’s something I’m definitely not into, I’d still have a go. Easily didn’t like it, I’d resemble ‘sorry, I’m definitely not into that.’ But there’s a lot of people that could say no to a lot of stuff.”
Cautious really common requests that you get?
“It is dependent upon the profile which you setup because whenever you make a profile, you write a bit bio about yourself, and my bio could possibly be seen as a little more ‘out there’. I’m ready to accept anything, like roleplay, so a lot of the time I buy roleplay requests, more even though I have discovered them fun regardless of how unusual or bizarre they can be. What excites me are uncommon and strange requests which you wouldn’t really find. Life’s too boring otherwise”
How does someone react once you tell them all you do?
“I get a mixture of emotions. Mostly people react positively due to the way I speak about it. It’s so different if you’re really shy and timid and quiet about this. It immediately sends out this idea of ‘oh they’re not completely ok with it.’
Basically you’re able to turn out to be sex-positive self to your full potential…
“Exactly! That’s where I received my first taste of sex positivity. Dealing with my relationships all night to college I became like ‘woah, nobody thinks generate an income do, I have to be weird’. Being a webcam model, I realised many people are into different things, they merely think that they can’t talk about it.”
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